Shame and Other Confusing Feelings About Masturbation (AMAB, Woman)

[Content Warning: self-harm, aphobia] As a child, I discovered masturbation accidentally while home alone. I didn't even understand what had ...

Fantasies and masturbation (AFAB, CIS)

I am a cis woman. Due to my menstrual cycle, I go from sex-repulsed to neutral to sometimes positive. That’s ...

Arousal Without Sex

For as long as I can remember, I knew I wanted nothing to do with sex. It seemed incredibly gross ...

An Asexual Watches VR Porn (AMAB, Cis, Man)

I recently picked up an Oculus Go headset and decided to check out VR porn. “But wait,” you say, “you’re ...

Differently. (AMAB, Cis, Man)

[Content Warning:  This post discusses personal experiences with masturbation (with a penis) in detail.]   Masturbation. It all seems different ...

Learning How (AMAB, Cis, Man)

[Content Warning: This post talks about masturbation and anatomy beyond the read more.] At the start, I had a few ...

Sex Dreams (AMAB, Cis, Man)

I’ve had sex dreams. They’re not frequent, but I have had them. Years ago, they actually sort of included sex ...

Exploring Porn (AMAB, Cis, Man)

Before I discovered I was asexual, I tried all kinds of porn, thinking that something somewhere would be enticing enough ...

Failing At Fantasies (AMAB, Cis, Man)

Fantasies. How? What? I’ve never figured out how fantasies work. I mean, I understand the concept. I’m going to imagine ...

Discovering Sex Toys (AMAB, Cis, Man)

[Content warning: Discussion of sex toys and their use, particularly penis toys.] Yes, I have sex toys. I have a ...

Negative Experiences With Sex Toys (AMAB, Cis, Man)

[Content warning: Discussion of sex toys, particularly those for a penis. Also a mention of objectionable marketing practices.] I have ...

Thoughts on Masturbation (AMAB, Cis, Man)

I’m asexual and I masturbate. I do it because I like it. It feels good. I never feel like I ...