Negotiation and Compromise

In the common language of asexuality, the word “compromise” is almost always used negatively, and almost always used to mean the complete capitulation of the ace partner to the desires of the non-ace partner.  Furthermore, as we all know, an ace person can never actually be willing to take part in in sexual activities, so doing anything along those...

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Want/Will/Won’t List

[Content Warning: This page lists and describes a number of explicit sexual activities. Some of these activities are listed using their common, crude names. There are no images on this page.] A "Want/Will/Won't" list is a tool to help people determine and communicate their interest in various activities and set boundaries with partners. For each...

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